Split in Two
Being a single parent is difficult. Being a single parent and having share your child is torture. It can feel like you are failing even when your child is away with another parent. The loss of control can feel like your heart is being ripped out. However, just because your child is away, doesn't mean that you are being replaced or that you are less important to your child. They think of you while you are separated and will come running to your arms when you are reunited. Treasure the moments with them. Even the painful moments where they cry and you just listen will mean something to your children. Son: “Hey mommy! Thanks for calling me. I tried calling you so much times but you didn’t answer. Why didn’t you answer me?” I need to focus on driving but I miss you so much baby boy. Mom: “I’m sorry bud, I was at work. I can’t talk to you when I am at work.” I wish I could, I got your sweet messages. You told me I was a lovely mom and should call you. I wanted to right th